Am I menopausing?
Menopause
Menopause is when your periods stop due to lower hormone levels. It usually affects women between the ages of 45 and 55, but it can happen earlier.
It affects anyone who has periods. Menopause can happen naturally, or for reasons such as surgery to remove the ovaries or the uterus, cancer treatments like chemotherapy, or a genetic reason. Sometimes the reason is unknown.
Perimenopause is when you have symptoms of menopause but your periods have not stopped. Perimenopause ends and you reach menopause when you have not had a period for 12 months.
Menopause and perimenopause can cause symptoms like anxiety, mood swings, brain fog, hot flushes and irregular periods. These symptoms can start years before your periods stop and carry on afterwards. Menopause and perimenopause symptoms can have a big impact on your life, including relationships and work.
Common symptoms of menopause and perimenopause
Menopause and perimenopause symptoms can have a big impact on your daily life, including relationships, social life, family life and work. It can feel different for everyone. You may have a number of symptoms or none. Symptoms usually start months or years before your periods stop. This is called the perimenopause.
Changes to your periods
The first sign of the perimenopause is usually, but not always, a change in the normal pattern of your periods, for example they become irregular. Eventually you'll stop having periods altogether.
Mental health symptoms
Common mental health symptoms of menopause and perimenopause include: changes to your mood, like low mood, anxiety, mood swings and low self-esteem, problems with memory or concentration (brain fog)
Physical symptoms
Common physical symptoms of menopause and perimenopause include: hot flushes, when you have sudden feelings of hot or cold in your face, neck and chest which can make you dizzy, difficulty sleeping, which may be a result of night sweats and make you feel tired and irritable during the day, palpitations, when your heartbeats suddenly become more noticeable, headaches and migraines that are worse than usual, muscle aches and joint pains, changed body shape and weight gain, skin changes including dry and itchy skin, reduced sex drive, vaginal dryness and pain, itching or discomfort during sex, recurrent urinary tract infections (UTIs),sensitive teeth, painful gums or other mouth problems
How long symptoms last?
Symptoms can last for months or years, and can change with time. Hot flushes and night sweats may improve, and then you may develop low mood and anxiety. Some symptoms, such as joint pain and vaginal dryness, can carry on after your periods stop.
Menopause and perimenopause if you’re using hormonal contraception
You cannot know for sure you've reached menopause if you're using hormonal contraception like the pill, IUS (hormonal coil), contraceptive implant or contraceptive injection. This is because hormonal contraception can affect your periods. If you're taking the combined pill, you'll have monthly period-type bleeds for as long as you keep taking the pill. The combined pill may also mask or control menopausal symptoms, such as hot flushes and night sweats. If you use the progestogen-only pill, IUS, contraceptive implant or contraceptive injection, your bleeds may be irregular or stop completely for as long as you use this contraception.
Stopping contraception
You can stop using contraception at the age of 55, as getting pregnant naturally after this is very rare. You’ll be advised not to take the combined pill from the age of 50. You can change to a progestogen-only pill or other method of contraception instead.
Lifestyle changes to help menopause and perimenopause
Eating well, exercising and looking after your mental wellbeing can help with symptoms during perimenopause and menopause. Get plenty of rest, including keeping to regular sleep routines, eat a healthy diet, have calcium-rich food like milk, yoghurt and kale to keep bones healthy, exercise regularly, try including weight-bearing activities where your feet and legs support your weight like walking, running or dancing, do relaxing things like yoga, tai chi or meditation, talk to other people going through the same thing, like family, friends or colleagues, talk to a doctor before taking herbal supplements or complementary medicines, do not smoke, do not drink more than the recommended alcohol limit.
Easing mood changes
It's common to have mood swings, low mood and anxiety around the time of the menopause and perimenopause.
You can try to: get plenty of rest, exercise regularly, do relaxing activities.
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)is a type of talking therapy that can help with a low mood and feelings of anxiety. It can also help with sleep problems.
Easing hot flushes and night sweats
You can: wear light clothing, keep your bedroom cool at night, take a cool shower, use a fan or have a cold drink, try to level, avoid or reduce potential triggers, such as spicy food, caffeine, hot drinks, smoking and alcohol, exercise regularly, lose if you're overweight
CBT can also help manage hot flushes.
Easing vaginal dryness
Apart from vaginal moisturisers or lubricants that you can get without a prescription at a pharmacy, there are other treatments for vaginal dryness that a doctor can prescribe, such as HRT (hormone replacement therapy) or hormonal treatment (creams, pessaries, gel or vaginal rings).
Protecting against weak bones
You can try to: exercise regularly, including weight-bearing exercises, where your feet and legs support your weight (like walking, running or dancing) and resistance exercises (for example, using weights),eat a healthy diet that includes plenty of fruit, vegetables and sources of calcium, such as milk, yoghurt and kale, get some sunlight on your skin as this triggers the production of vitamin D, which can help keep your bones healthy, take vitamin D supplements, stop smoking and cut down on alcohol
Treatment for menopause and perimenopause
The main medicine treatment for menopause and perimenopause symptoms is hormone replacement therapy (HRT), which replaces the hormones that are at low levels.
Hormone replacement therapy (HRT)
HRT involves using oestrogen to replace your body's own levels around the time of the menopause. There are different types and doses of HRT. Using the right dose and type usually means your symptoms improve.
Oestrogen comes as: skin patches, a gel or spray to put on the skin, implants, tablets. If you have a womb (uterus) you also need to take progesterone to protect your womb lining from the effects of oestrogen. Taking oestrogen and progesterone is called combined HRT.
Progesterone comes as: patches, as part of a combined patch with oestrogen, IUS (intrauterine system, or coil), tablets
If you have low sex drive because of menopause and HRT does not improve it, you may be offered testosterone.
Benefits of HRT
The main benefit of HRT is that it can help relieve most menopause and perimenopause symptoms, including hot flushes, brain fog, joint pains, mood swings and vaginal dryness. Hot flushes or night sweats often improve within a few weeks. Other symptoms like mood changes and vaginal dryness can take a few months to improve. Taking HRT can also reduce your risk of hormone-related health problems including osteoporosis and heart disease.
Risks of HRT
The risks of HRT are small and usually outweighed by the benefits.
Testosterone gel for reduced sex drive
If HRT does not help restore your sex drive, you might be offered a testosterone gel or cream. It can help improve sex drive, mood and energy levels. Testosterone is produced by the ovaries and your levels usually get lower with age. It’s not currently licenced for use in women, although it can be prescribed after the menopause by a specialist doctor if they think it might help restore your sex drive. Side effects of using testosterone are not common but include acne and unwanted hair growth.
Oestrogen for vaginal dryness and discomfort
Your vagina may become dry, painful or itchy as a result of the menopause and perimenopause.
A medical practitioner / specialist can prescribe oestrogen treatments you can insert into your vagina, as a tablet, cream or ring. This can also improve any urinary symptoms caused by menopause and perimenopause, like discomfort when you pee.
Non-hormone medicines
There are non-hormone treatments if your symptoms are having a big impact on your life and you cannot, or choose not to, have HRT.
Hot flushes and night sweats: There are some medicines that can help with hot flushes and night sweats. These include: a blood pressure medicine called clonidine; an epilepsy medicine called gabapentin
Mood symptoms: Antidepressants can help with mood symptoms if you've been diagnosed with depression or anxiety.
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is a talking therapy which can help with: low mood and anxiety caused by menopause and perimenopause, some physical symptoms like hot flushes and joint pain
Follow-up appointments
If you're having treatment for your symptoms of menopause or perimenopause, you'll need to return to the doctor or nurse who is prescribing your HRT for a follow-up review after 3 months. When you and your doctor or nurse agree your treatment is working well for you, you'll need to see them once a year. During your reviews, your doctor or nurse may: make sure your symptoms are under control, ask about any side effects and vaginal bleeding, check your weight and blood pressure, review the type of HRT you're taking and make any necessary changes. You may need treatment for a few years, until most of your menopause and perimenopause symptoms have passed.
Complementary and alternative therapies
Complementary and alternative treatments, such as herbal remedies and compounded bioidentical ("natural") hormones, are not recommended for symptoms of the menopause or perimenopause. This is because it's not clear how safe and effective they are. Red clover and black cohosh are herbal remedies but there is no strong evidence that they work.